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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:i am a girl who has a lot of guy friends. i flirt with them a lot.Among my guy friends, there's one that i have crush on since a few months ago.we used to talk a lot and he would act so nice to me, he made me smile a lot too.unfortunately, i dated someone else and not him. (my crush was totally over at that time)when i was still dating this guy number 2, i started to realize that he isn't the one. so long story short, we broke up.now, it's months after we broke up.and i started crushing madly on this guy number 1 again, but he is acting differently now.After my break up, i realize that i became more comfortable around boys and i tend to put my hand on their shoulder, embrace them and etc.everybody knows that now i like this guy number 2 and i'm sure he knows too.i have to admit that sometimes i try to make him jealous by being flirty to my guy friends and see how his reaction is.he showed quite a jealous reaction.but now he is acting so distant to me and i don't know why.earlier today, he entered my class (i assumed he doesnt know), but when he saw me, he turned back and walked away.not sparing me any words to say.i'm confused and i miss him, it's gonna be less than a week before my finals end and im not going to see him for a long time.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (19 May 2016):
 You have given him an image of yourself a flirt and a tease. Who could trust you? Who could take you seriously? I know that when you are young everything doesn't have to be serious. You are allowed to muck about and have some fun but he has taken you seriously and not in the right way.
Somehow you need to set him straight about who you are, that you are genuine, and you aren't going to mess him about.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 May 2016):
 I think he has seen you change from a girl he liked to a girl who likes to play games.
I'm sorry I would totally "cool" off a crush if someone tried to make me jealous by getting all touchy-feely with other male friends.
Or maybe he just can't read you. He sees a change in you but doesn't understand it. After all... the guy is NOT a mind-reader. He has NO clue that you dumped #2 because you had feelings for him. And even if he suspected that you cared about him, your ACTIONS have shown the opposite.
Also... JEALOUSY is not an indication of "love" or "loving" feelings. Jealousy is petty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2016): OK. You sound like you like to crush on guys. You like to get all giggly goofy silly flirty and you did this with your guy friend. Most likely bc he seemed "safe" as in: you don't have to have sex with him. My guess is that he is distant bc he likes you. And he doesn't want his feelings hurt
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