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writes: Lost spark.My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years told me that she is considering breaking it off because she feels that we have become more like good friends than lovers. Any suggestions on how to convince her to stay and to reignite the spark?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): You two need to talk over what you both really want. How do you both feel about your lovemaking etc. Do you go out on dates. Maybe go away for a weekend. It doesn't have to be expensive. Just a short break. We all have been there. The relationship starts off fast and furious and goes into the doldrums for a while but lots of people like things that way, others who don't, do something about it. Get to know what she would like to do to try and get things back on track. But please do talk to each other.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): You two need to talk over what you both really want. How do you both feel about your lovemaking etc. Do you go out on dates. Maybe go away for a weekend. It doesn't have to be expensive. Just a short break. We all have been there. The relationship starts off fast and furious and goes into the doldrums for a while but lots of people like things that way, others who don't, do something about it. Get to know what she would like to do to try and get things back on track. But please do talk to each other.
Take care
xx
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Ask her. Maybe she's referring to the way she feels about you in which case there's not much you can do but if it's something like your sex life has gone to the wall or you're not spending enough coupley time together then those things are easily resolved... but until you know exactly what she means by that you can't start working to solve it.
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