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reader, bRenT  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Dude, really, be more mature than that. you cant force her to sleep with you. and its not that big of a deal anyways. plus that can damage up the relationship with your friend. dont lose a friend over sex man, that's low.
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (24 March 2008):
 Oh yeah, that is the way to convince the ladies. Say you just want to sleep with them once.
I should try that, I don't get nearly enough slaps in the face. (Hey, it is physical contact)
Few women lend themselves for what you want and the ones that do charge by the hour.
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reader, Leanna  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 If she doesn't want you then she doesn't want you. Get over it.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 March 2008):
 You ask her, she says no you leave it at that, keep pestering her and i doubt she will be your friend much longer.
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reader, LJ001 +, writes (24 March 2008):
 You've got to respect her decision and take it as she says it - no. The chance of her agreeing to sex after she's already said you're not her type is pretty non-existant. But just don't let it knock you back. As 'kenny' says, I bet there's loads of other girls out there who'd like to sleep with you :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): if you care about this girl then why do you want to sleep with her just once.
think about how would this affect your friendship. is it worth putting your friendship on the line for sex?
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (24 March 2008):
 There is no way other than asking her outright if she will sleep with you. If you ask her and she says no, then you have got to respect her decision and move on. As she has already said you are not her type then the likellhood of her saying yes are somewhat slim. We have all had knockbacks at some point in our lives, the key to being successful is to take it on the chin and move on, im sure there are alot of girls out there that would like to sleep with you.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): I think this is gross. You want your friend purely for her sexuality. Even if you like her emotionally, you're willing to sacrifice a real relationship with her just for sex.
Personally, I think this is an example of male chauvinism, and I think you would be better off going a looking for a girl who you like as a person and who you are willing to have a real relationship with (and who is willing to have a real relationship with you!)
No self-respecting girl should ever sleep with a guy just because he wants her physically. Full stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Stop trying entirely. Act like you've totally gotten "over it" about her and you no longer even want to sleep with her if you could.
Get another GF (or at least a temporary f*ck buddy) that's hotter than she is. Start talking to your original GF about how much fun the other girl is & how hot you think she is.
Your original girl will start getting jealous.
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reader, lady_km +, writes (24 March 2008):
 hey
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if shes said no she actually means no. you are supposed to be her friend. back off abit! if she changes her mind fair enough but dont pressure her about it and make her feel guilty.
if your a true friend you wouldnt ask her to sleep with you
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