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How can I orgasm easier?

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Question - (15 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i cant orgasm when my boyfriend fingers me. when hes fingering me he does it rapidly and hard and i like it, but i just cant seem to orgasm. it feels good when he eats me out too, but not even close to an orgasm. Any tips on how he can eat me out so and finger me so ill be more likely to cum?

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A female reader, les United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

Thats because both you and your boyfriend are inexperienced and too young.

For guys, orgasming is usually physical and automatic.

For most women, orgasms are mostly the mental state you are in. At your age, there is no way that you have the maturity to put yourself in that mental state, nor does your boyfriend understand women and their bodies well enough to do the job.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (15 August 2008):

Yos agony auntIt's probably because you're not relaxed enough. And sorry to say this: you're probably not relaxed enough because you're too young to be doing this. I have to agree with Tellulah I'm afraid. Wait a few years then try it again, and you'll likely have a much easier time.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntWhat the hell!!!

Your 13 for gods sake, these things shouldnt even enter your head........... I am lost for words.

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