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writes:Hi. I am 16. There is a girl that I love. We have gone on dates and spent a ton of time together. The problem is, I had assumed we were already going out. She recently started to date this other dude. He is not nice to her. She still wont dump him. What can i do to help her realize what a jerk he is, or have him not like her anymore so they would break up? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): You gotta quit assuming this is a problem that she wants fixed. She KNOWS she is dating a jerk. If he wasn't such a jerk then she probably would not like him as much.
Her words say she doesn't want such a jerk and her actions say she does. Guess which one speaks louder?
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reader, andre23 +, writes (13 July 2010):
Nothing...i have been in the same situation, don't get involved or you'll only make it worse
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): Hi
All you can do is be there for her when she discovers what you see, and she will realise then what you have to offer. I hope this helps
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 July 2010):
You can't. Some girls love going out with their bad boys and jerks. Just step away. Seriously, you're fighting a losing battle. She wants a bad boy, and that's what she's got. nothing you can do will convince her otherwise.
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