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How can I make my girlfriend orgasm (faster)?

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Question - (3 January 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2008)
A male South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi there

My girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can do to make her cum quiker.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008):

i know this is going to sound strange, but as a woman myself....if she has to pee than the orgasm comes alot faster! it sounds strange but it works man!

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (4 January 2008):

From my personal experience,if you make giving her an orgasm your goal,you are bound to fail.Just relax and arouse her as long as possible and enjoy each other.Let the orgasm come naturally.My current partner is more challenging in bed and i used have a hard time thinking of how to make her orgasm and in the end we never really enjoyed it.Now that i think less of it and just make her enjoy the sex she started to orgasm.She even orgasms during foreplay!

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

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Thanks for the responce, i will be sure to try out new things next time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

As a woman, I can honestly say that the answer is foreplay. Finger her, stroke her clit and go down on her. Only a small percentage of women can orgasm through penetration, so you need to make sure she has a thoroughly good time before you have yours! Hope this helps X

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (3 January 2008):

I strongly believe the longer the foreplay the better the sex.Did you know that it takes about the same time for a man and a woman to reach climax but what's needed is to get her to what we call the plateau of sex,where she's ready for intercourse.I also agree with da male anonymous reader that trying out different positions really helps too.So next time try out something new.

Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

hi there i had the same problem with my girlfriend. we tried differnt postions and it helped her reach orgasm. another thing you can try is a bit of foreplay before sex that may also help her reach an orgasm.

hope this is helpful for you

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