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How can I let my ex down gently? He's still inviting me for coffee.

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Question - (2 May 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2015)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Advice please. My x is inviting me round for coffee every day, and trying his luck. Whilst I was there he was on a dating site (hidden from me.)

How do I let him down gently?

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A male reader, Garbo United States +, writes (3 May 2015):

Garbo agony auntThere is no "gently". Either you are with him or you are not. If you are deciding to be not with him then don't ever be with him. Let him, himself, deal gently with your absence.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (2 May 2015):

Honeypie agony auntSTOP the contact? Tell him I'm going to go no contact, I wish you well.

He isn't trying to be your friend, he is trying to still get laid.

Then you BLOCK his number, delete it and MOVE on.

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