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anonymous
writes:I am in love with my straight best friendI have been in love with her since i met her...but by then, we were young.She partially reciprocated my love, because i have told her i love her.She however is afraid of really coming out...so she usually brushes it offAfter going through this hell of a time...i told her that much as i love her very much, and our friendship means a lot ..i wont be hanging out with her.She refused but she slowly by slowly accepted..we are now in our thirties, and with life's challenges...circumstances have changed us. I have gotten married and she is savedthe only challenge is that she is toxic in away that she always want to tick my feelings so that she can get some kinda of attentionWhen i post a pic of a girl or a friend...she will post something similar..just to get to me.when i keep quite, she will look out for meits hard to ignore all this, when you are trying to move on.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 August 2016):
 Agreed...if you follow unfollow her.
IF she persists...unfriend her
if she still persists then it's block time.
same with the phone...
often we outgrow childhood friends... and that's ok... time to move on.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (24 August 2016):
 Actually it's quite easy to ignore when her feeds are hidden or she's blocked and deleted entirely.
How do you plan to move on keeping her around?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 August 2016):
 The logical thing to do here is to cut all contact, block her from social media, from your phone. Cutting her our completely will remove the toxins from your life.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (22 August 2016):
 So why keep her around? If she plays petty games with you? That doesn't sound like a friend you NEED to keep around in your life or social media.
IF you don't want to unfriend/block her - hide her feeds.
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