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How can I help my sister from being hurt??? What should I do?

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Question - (16 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2010)
A female India age 41-50, *cream writes:

I have come across this man who is dating my sister. He behaves very good to me but is emotionally unavailable. He admits not being serious about any women and also that marriage is not needed to get physical with a women. he is into a profession where he gets his needs satisfied without comitments.

She has had a bad marriage and has split and has got into a habit of messaging him all day. last week when she went to see him at a food joint (mind you it was just the third time they met) he made some advances of holding her. when she told him she was uncomfortable he moved away. In an hours time he again tried kissing and she lost control. Kissed about five to seven min and the minute she realised she was loosing control she walked away. Later she messaged him apologising that she left as she did not want to cross her boundaries. He too apologised. Its been 3-4 days now. She would still talk to him and he would reply but not as much. What should she do? Why is she falling for this emotional unavailable man? Do you feel he is interested??

Even now she initates the talk??? What do we do?? I dont want her to be hurt??? Ideally would he not withdraw if she has stepped away from getting physical??? Or is it his ego which is hurt which would only be satisfied if he gets her physically. Currently he has not been talking to her at all... sends messages at times usually stating he is busy???Wat does she do?

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 July 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntAt the end of the day all you can do is tell her you don't like this guy and you think she could do better and then back off. Be there for her to pick up the pieces when it all falls to bits. The more you try to push her to leave him the more she will fight to stay with him. Good lcuk I know this is hard.

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