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writes:I'm 24 and my partner is 26. We've been together for 3 years now, and everything's been good.In the last few weeks my partner's been refusing every effort I make to seduce him or to have sex with him and I didn't know why until one night 3 weeks later when as I was trying to seduce him dressed in sexy lingerie in our bedroom he admitted to me it was because his doctor had diagnosed him with enuresis.He said that he felt so embarrassed he kept it secret, and just pretended to be uninterested in sex.He feels he isn't good enough in the bedroom because of it. No matter how many times I tell him he's a great boyfriend (which he is!) he just feels he isn't good enough??how can I help him??Laura Reply to this Question
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 So after the doctor told him he suffers from bed-wetting he acts like "sick-boy" and decides to abstain from sex??? How can Enurisis affect performance, if it didnt affect him before the doctor told him about it. A lot of this could be psychosomatic. All in his head. Or it might be the the drugs he is taking for his condition are affecting his performance. That's something he should address with his doctor
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