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writes:I'm meant to be meeting this lad that I've known for quite a while. I've spoke to him on messenger before but eventually we stopped. I recently saw him when I was drunk and got talking to him and we've been having late night chats on messenger every night since. I've arranged to meet him but I'm so nervous.How can I get over my nerves of meeting this lad on my own and being sober. I don't know what to do and you may say I've seen him before but I wasnt on my own and was drunk and can't really remember.Advice please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): I don't have a drinking problem it was a party.
And I wasn't falling around just got abit upset and stuff.
Thank you for the advice though
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reader, Odds  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 How drunk were you? If you were falling-down, confess-your-undying-love drunk, *anything* you say sober will improve his opinion of you. If you were just a little buzzed, he'll hardly notice the difference. Since you can't really remember meeting him, you're probably closer to the former.
Nerves are normal. Just ignore them, and if the conversation gets too quiet, ask him about himself until it gets going again.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (23 July 2010):
Do you have a drinking problem?
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reader, The wife listener  +, writes (23 July 2010):
It doesnt matter that you were drunk last time honey. Just be yourself if he likes you it will flow easily. Try to look at it in a different light. Trying looking forward to getting to know him better, rather than concentrating on and dreading on what impression your going to give.
Hope this helps and good luck
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reader, lion heart +, writes (23 July 2010):
 boys dont mind you being nervous, they find it quite cute to be honest, you dont need alcohol to make you brave. if you meet him at a place were you know well that will make you less nervous. if you have known him a while then that will help. just start a convo going. mabey bring some thing up from the night before from msn. and before you know it your would of fogot about you nerves n and they will be gone. mabey tell him your nervous. because that helps get rid of them wen you know that you are
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