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*endy23
writes:I am 23 years old and I am a mother of two children ages 7 and 4 so I have my hands full. Ever since about three months ago, my sex drive has went down a lot. My husband is being patient but it's wearing thin. We haven't done anything in two months and I don't cheat on him so that's not it. I just can't seem to get myself in the mood no matter what we do or where we try to do it at. I need some advice, can anyone help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): Spend a romantic evening with him get a baby sitter. Talk about the things you love about eachother. Try to put some romance into your relationship. Make him a special dinner and tell him you love him. If you can't see doing that, just suck it up and have sex..you're married with his children and obviously love eachother so I don't see the harm in throwing him a bone. I am preg and have a 4 mo. old and I am hardley ever in the mood, but I let my man get some because he works hard and deserves it. I do it almost every night. It doesn't last very long. Unless you cringe when he touches you, why not? And if you do cringe, maybe there's a problem in the marriage?
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (8 August 2007):
 From my relationship experiences, and talking with others, what you are experiencing is normal. With two small children, you are probably worn out at the end of the day. However, 2 months is not normal to go without, so I am going to interject some other issues here that may or may not be related. 1. When you and your husband have sex, are you able to have an orgasm? Do you get any emotional reward for having sex with him? Do you feel pleased after sex? 2. Do you excercise daily? 3.What is your normal daily diet? (breakfast, lunch, dinner) 4. Do you drink alcohol? How much? 5. Are you taking any drugs? 6. Do you smoke? 7. Have you or any family members been been diagnosed with depression? If you will answer my questions, I will try to help you with a solution.
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