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How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

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Question - (21 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2012)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone

I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me.

He is not worried about our son,my son lives with my mother and he doesn't call our son or even supports me

I realy don't want him to be apart of my life because he is making trouble between my boyfriend and I,if he wants to be apart of his sons life he can be I wouldn't stop him,but I want him to leave me alone and forget about me,please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2012):

I'm thinking because your ex has a child to you, he assumes he has more rights over you than any other man does. Also (though you say he's not thinking of his child in all this) the thought of any other man possibly being around his child probably makes him jealous too.

I suppose you've already made it clear to the ex that you want nothing more to do with him, but if he wishes to see his child then he's welcome to. So I think you really have no choice but to be blunt with him and say that if he doesn't stop harassing you, you will get the police involved and also a harassment order against him if you have to. See what happens from there.

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