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How can I get my fiance to relax during oral sex?

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Question - (10 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, *ISIESTWN writes:

how can i help my fiance relax and cum while im giving him felatio (head) oral sex. He won't do it.dont know why and he cant cum unless im on my stomach laying flat and melicking his hand as if i was eating a pussy please advise and also i get cheated allot cuz i dont get the foreplay that i need so i go to the shower in front of him and it doesnt bother him why

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 July 2011):

DoubleM agony auntYour wording does not make much sense to me, especially "he cant cum unless i'm on my stomach laying flat and me licking his hand as if i was eating a pussy."

So, either he cums or not? Via hand licking?

Anyway, some men can release for a girlfriend or wife applying good oral sex, and some apparently cannot. While I've never had the problem, I know that one certain stimulus to ejaculate during a blow job is a prostate rub. You can check out the suggestions in this Web site's archives.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2011):

this does sound a bit strange i would tell him you need foreplay first he is being selfish by not giving you it i would try using a vibrator or something on yurself while you shower in front of him that should get a reaction out of him good luck

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