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How can I get his sister to give us some space?

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Question - (24 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2006)
A female , *aramala writes:

OMG..My boyfriend and I had just moved into a place. I know him and his family are really close especially him and his sister..but the problem is, is shes almost over at my house everyday! I moved out of my home to get some space and it doesn't feel like I am gettng any. Shes always over and its so annoying. We've talked about it, and he says "well its my sister, what do you want me to do about it.." well It is his family, but its my house too. she doesn't pay rent and shes porobably there more then I am. What can I do. I want to respect him, but I also want my space as well. please help..or else I will say something I will regret.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntYou dont say how old she is?

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A female reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (24 April 2006):

PrunellaGringepith agony auntI think your best bet would be to initiate a little girl-talk with his sister. Be as friendly and as nice as you can, but let her know that the two of you would appreciate a little more time alone. Maybe you could pretend to confide in her how the two of you are having a few problems and need some time together to sort them out. If you make her feel like you are confiding in her and letting her feel included she may not feel so upset at you asking her to leave you alone for a bit.

Alternatively, you could always initiate sex with your boyfriend in between her and the television... maybe she will get the hint and disappear!

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