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writes:please do me a favor. i am studying in a university and that's where we met.if we weren't in the same group i don't think he would notice me and neither do i.first of all i think i might have a crush on him. for real, i might just looking for a sign from him. therefore, i have been through different situations which make me think that he might interest in me too.here's the thing. i wanna know if he really likes me, or more. just a plain question that many people would ask but i do need advices.he's a year older and take care of me so well. i remember he did ask me once long time ago when it's my birthday and on my birthday he came up and surprise me. he ask me out for dinner which i don't know if it would be just 2 of us or with my friends. too bad that i denied cuz i was busy that evening. wonder what we might talk. so he postpone it as it seems like he really want to make the dinner happen someday. should i be afraid? anyway, a smart and an easygoing guy like him shouldn't be so shy right? i don't know if he's like hiding from me but still i know he glances at me sometimes. so do i. one day i walked past him in a canteen and i was too afraid to look up which i might have met his eyes. there, from the distance he was staring at me and looked down at the moment i met his gaze playing with his cell. is that a coincident? i tried to ignore him as well as hiding cuz i'm afraid he would ask me out again, which i want it so bad! so confused now. his friends seems to know something. i heard them teasing him recently. many of his friends that i've never had a conversation before suddenly talk to me. and the plan about birthday dinner is well known among his friends as they give me a mystery look while they remind me that. he might wanna talk to me more but i'm not kind of person who knows the talk. i talk less than usual people do. what's difference is that he is a chatter box but sometimes speechless with me. i can feel that sometimes he wasn't himself when i'm around. that's harder to bring out the truth. obviously i can't just ask him how he feels but i really wanna make him confess! should i do that and how? thanks for reading.
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (3 July 2010):
it sounds like he is interested.. why dont you just go up to him and say hello and tell him that since you were unable to accompany him for dinner that you would like to make it up to him and treat him to coffee, dinner, lunch , whatever... take it from there stop being shy dont miss out he may be the one youve been looking for:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): There is a huge stigma about guys, that they are the assertive ones. That is completely not true. In fact alot of guys really do have a very shy side to them. Just because he is talkative and outgoing, doesnt mean that he is that way in every situation. I myself have a very outward and vibrant personality, but I always have a hard time talking to women when it comes to dating. Also, one thing may be that he took you denying the dinner as rejection. Obviously it wasn't, because you had something to do, but it can easily be construed as rejection. If you really want to start a relationship with this person, maybe you should go ahead and go for it yourself. Maybe you could remind him of the birthday dinner that you werent able to have at the time and let him know that you would like for it to happen. Good luck!
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