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How can I get a popular boy to notice me?

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Question - (26 November 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this question is from my friend because she dosnt have a page on dear cupid: im 15 and i have a huge crush on this popular boy, he dosnt really know who i am, how can i get him to notice me?

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A female reader, BunnyRabit United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

Well...I don't really know.But I would say to ask him things he has an intrest in.If that doesn't work then you should start off being friends with his friends and him. He'll notice you if you are hitting it off with his friends.But don't spent too much time with his friends or he'll see you as a threat.If you have any classes with him ask him about the homework,and if your not really good at that ask for him to tutor you in a studyhall or somethig like that.And remeber,don't try too,too hard b-cuz that will be obvious.GOOD LUCK:D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

Why don't you just finbd stuff out about him like his fav music then turn it up wen goin past or talk bout footie wen u cross paths and look him in the eyes when you see him and see if he notices you , if not then he aint interested :( sozzies :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008):

I'm working on that myself now. I have 5 classes with my crush, so that helps. I became friends with one of his closest friends, and I try to sit near him. Ask him something about your homework or something that happened in a class you have with him. Eventually, he'll talk to you first. When he does something funny, laugh. Tease him a little bit, but don't be mean. When he talks to you, don't blow him off, just be yourself, be nice, and have fun! If he doesn't like you, he's the one missing out, not you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007):

It seems kind of stupid that you fancy a boy who you hardly talk to, I know I do it but I just ignore them cos it will never turn into something else, but if you really do like him, get to know him, make a witty remark and laugh if he does something funny. You never know he might turn out to be a right nutter!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (26 November 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you friends best bet would be to be friends with him, to say hi to him when she passes him and try to build up some kind of raport with this guy. Maybe after a few days of saying hi she could progress further and maybe get chatting to him. At this point it would be a good idea to throw in some light flirtatious gestures like direct eye contact, or maybe some light touches, and tell her to laugh at things he says too.

Hope this helps, and good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007):

Well, anonymous, you might tell your "friend" to just be open and friendly when she is around this "popular" guy, and say "Hi", in the hallway, or wherever. If she has a class with him, she might ask a question about an assignment or something. Guys usually don't mind being asked for help or advice by girls, especially if it is about something they know. There are ways to get his attention without being obvious. The trick is to not be too obvious. He probably gets a lot of that.

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A female reader, FairyArchie India +, writes (26 November 2007):

Hey,

Well whenever You see him tur ur face n start talking about something interesting with ur friends...so that he could listen to it...n also show ur friends that u r not intersted in that boy...n u don't understand why girls like him so much? n alll this should happen when he is listening to you....he will approach you himself....try it...IT WILL DEFINATELY WORK.....

FROM-FairyArchie....do not forget to RATE ME...KEEP ASKING QUESTIONS

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