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How can I find my brother and sister without my real dad knowing even he doesn't see them

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Question - (6 April 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, csh1983 writes:

hi

i recent met my real dad again at my mum funeral bout three month ago

i want to know how i get him to spend time with to make up lost time after 20 years

i know i got half brother and sister but i want to see them

help me pls how can i find my brother and sister without my real dad knowing even he doesnt see them

craig

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (16 July 2008):

BigSis agony auntCraig!

Hello stranger, nice one sweetheart, that's so good to hear. I'm very happy for you.

Always be optimistic, if in life there's something you desperately need or want, or there's a goal you have to reach, then trust and believe in yourself and go for it, fight for it if you have to. Just trust me when I say ~ you will achieve that goal.

Like I said 3 months ago ...'Don't you just love happy endings?'.

Well, Craig, YOU made that happen ... so well done you, but it's not over yet, it will get happier, because you'll make sure it does.

Way to go mate!

BigSis

xXx

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A male reader, csh1983 United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2008):

csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

csh1983 agony aunthi it going great , got in touch with them by text message etc but will soon meet them in person also hope that thye meet my real sister as well

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008):

Craig

Oh Im so pleased, I hope everything goes well for you goodluck hunny LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (28 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntCraig, that's great news. I hope it all goes well for you, and hope you enjoy exchanging family stories.

Good luck hon.

BigSis

xXx

{Don't you just love happy endings, you guys?}

: )

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A male reader, csh1983 United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

csh1983 agony aunthi update, i know where my half brother sister now , thy live near me and thy know bout me and my sister so hopefully i'll meet thm soon

thx for your comment and it be helpful

craig

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A male reader, csh1983 United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

csh1983 agony aunthi thx many for your comment , it was a shock that she went , i know he work every day at this place but is there a way that get him to have 30 mins with me frm work in the morning or something but problem is that he keep saying he ring me but he dnt so how i dit

thx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

Hi craig

Sorry to hear of your mothers death my prayers are with you love, Hunny I found my biological parents and my brothers a few yrs ago now hunny, I no you said you have text your dad asking for help, Maybe if you phoned him and met up with him to have a proper talk he may be more willing to give you more information love, As all you really need is a name to go on, I have found you a link sweetheart that may help....

http://uk.ask.com/web?q=lost+relatives+search&qsrc=999&l=dis&siteid=41439049

If you can just get hold of names then your half way there hunny it took me 10yrs sweetheart to find my family but I stuck to it and it was well worth it to meet my brothers good luck hunny WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (16 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntOh and Craig, my love, I forgot to add ~ You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your mum. Let's all hope this works out well for you, and you get this reunion together, soon.

BigSis xXx

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom + , writes (16 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntMy daughter recently found her two brothers from her father's (my ex-husband) second marriage. Both boys had no idea their dad had other kids, he and his wife never told them. Sadly their mother has put a stop to them having contact with my two children, which has upset them and and my two very much. Hopefully when the boys are old enough they will get in contact.

Now ~ all my daughter did was put their names in 'Bebo' and 'Face Book', that's how simple it was for her.

Try that, just like StarFairy says....there are many sites where you could do some searching. Friends re-united is very good also, it's easy to use and guides you as to how to trace friends and family that you've lost contact with.

Good luck.

BigSis xXx

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A male reader, csh1983 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

csh1983 agony aunthi thx for comment but i try that but i been trying to get my real dad to say something where thy live even i text him bout it , it didnt work but iw ant to meet them to know thm as well

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

starfairy agony auntIf you want to spend time with your Dad, all you have to do is ask him.

As for your brother and sister, think about the people who might have clues to their whereabouts, people who might know information about them.

You could try websites like Facebook or Friends Reunited if you know their names, check with the army/RAF etc...

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