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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I recently got with a new guy who isn't very sexually experienced. He comes across quite dominant/confident sexually, which is good because I want him to do what he feels comfortable with. HOWEVER, the other day I was stroking 'him' and he was saying that he thought I should stop because it would be embarrassing for him if he came. I was so confused!! 'embarrassing'?? I really wanted to give this guy the pleasure he deserves and he doesn't seem the type of guy to get embarrassed easily? How do I enlighten him about sexual things like this? He appears genuinely quite sexually naive in many simple ways, but confident in others? I know you will all say 'talk to him' but if he feels embarrassed about cuming then how can i change his mind?Also, completely different question- I tried many of my usual techniques that my ex boyf's liked and nothing seem to work? I know I just said before that he felt ready to cum, but that was once all night? Is it possible he is just abit quiet? Most of my other boyfriend's were abit noisy when they got excited? I feel abit rubbish cuz I always felt quite successful at satisfying my ex's?
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 Sorry love.
But, some guys just weren't born to perform well in the sack.
Your either someone who whilst in the mood, your up for anything that comes your way..(you know, your horny!!)
Or...
Your either someone, who constantly takes everything step by step and worries about how they are performing mid intercourse, cant do eye contact and just finds getting off uncomfortable infront of someone else.
You cant teach someone to be a tiger in bed...at the end of the day...sex is sex...nothing should get in the way of the mood surely?
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