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anonymous
writes:me and a friend have recently got together but i keep laughing when he starts kissing me and i dont know why!! i hate it cz i start laughing so he pulls away and then im fine but when he kisses me again i laugh. i feel really guilty cz it must be annoying to him. i mean he laughs too and jokes like "am i going to have to kiss rape u" and i do eventually stop laughing but still it must be a bit offensive musnt it? how can i control myself?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 You can have sex in the solemn mood, the serious mood or the amusing mood. Why must sex be in the serious mood?
Is'nt it more enjoyable when you can have it in your own relax way ?
I don't see why you cannot do that. If both of you can laugh and joke about it, wouldn't it be more enjoyable?
Why follow society's precepts of being serious and not to laugh when you kiss or have sex?
It is your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlaura - we are always laughing about things and joking about but wen we start to get intimate obviously i dont want to laugh as i'm worried it will ruin the mood. i guess i'll just have to try and control it. thanks for your advice
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 February 2008):
Do you laughs only when you kiss with this guy?
There must be something comical about his expressions that you cannot help laughing or you felt ticklish the way he kissed you . Ha! Ha! Says the clown!
You both should kiss more and laugh more .Laughter is the best medicine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Yes it could offend him. But I mean you say he laughs too so I don't really know the dynamic between you two. But in general, you shouldn't laugh at someone when they kiss you, unless of course something really funny happened right before the kiss. But to just laugh at him for merely kissing you. No. That's my opinion.
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