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How can I break it off with her after all this time?

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Question - (31 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2007)
A male Nigeria age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want to quit my present relationship because there's no communication, she does not call. I'm tired of it and not happy most times when I flash back. How do I break this relationship of 1 year and 7 months?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 September 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey sweetness,

Well, the best I can tell you is to just DO IT. The more time you take to break it off, the worse it will hurt her when you do it. Be honest and upfront about it - try to leave it so that she won't have many questions. Give her what they call "closure". The last thing you want is for her to linger on this break up and forever asking herself "why??".

So don't waste time, be as nice as you can while trying to be honest about things. Breaking up is never easy, but someone's gotta do it if things aren't working out.

Good luck, sweetness!

xxIndia

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A female reader, XXpussycatXX United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2007):

hiya

the best thing for you both to do is talk about your feelins.you both may decide that there isnt anything worth putting in to the relationship that is worth saving yuboth may feel the same wa...speaking about it will make you both feel better about it...as it cant go on like this

xx

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A male reader, Escalaya United States +, writes (1 September 2007):

Escalaya agony auntBest way is to come clean, tell her why it's being ended, and that you're unhappy in the relationship. Be considerate of her feelings, and politely tell her this. No matter what the situation, she'll most likely feel like her self-value has dropped to sub-par levels. Especially if she really cared about you a lot.

Best of luck, take care.

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