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writes:I’m self-conscious about my looks. How can I be confident when it’s obvious most guys are better looking than me?I have a friend who is approaching 50 in age, and who's not exactly "dashingly handsome." He's not ugly, but it's obvious that he's not a male supermodel either.One of the things he loves to do is tell women that they're probably not used to getting attention from unusually good-looking guys like himself... and they eat it up. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): I agree with Waterloo Sunset, looks are not everything. It's common that an average guy who's almost 50 years old walking up to a beautiful woman in her 20s, one of my friends(a pretty 26 years old woman) met her husband(a 55 years old man who is blew-average) at Agematch.com, so why not confident about yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): Looks are not everything. It is the person inside. And as for your friend, well the women must be very shallow or a bit thick to bite that one! Honestly, the best looking guys make the worst husbands. They are so up their own a**e! You sound to be a lovely person so stop knocking yourself and enjoy what you have.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (20 September 2007):
 confidence works wonders. this guy knows he's not brad pitt but acts like god's gift because girls like a man to feel happy in themselves. if you are insecure about the way you look, shell feel intimidated and that'll scare her aware.unbeleivably alot of us girls know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it is personality, sense of humour, ability to see past imperfections and general kindness which makes us weak at the knees. only a small percentage of guys feel confident with their looks. but don't get cockiness and confidence confused.
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