A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help, I need help in how to just be cival with my ex boyfriend, we have a baby together, i can't do the friends thing with him anymore.
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (10 August 2007):
 Choosing not to act on an hurt angry impulse..that lies within you toward this guy..could show yourself and that you are capable of doing a very courageous, mature thing. Now remember, you chose to create a child with this guy. The child needs a Father in it's life and you and he need to be civil and polite to each other so he/she grows up in a healthy, happy way. This child does not deserve to be witness to parents who hate each other and she definitely does not bneed to be raised with anger and bitterness, in her life. Don't do that to your child. What you do, is when he's around you and this child, is you learn to stay calm and 'detach' your feelings and be polite to him. No matter how much he antagonizes or drives you around the bend. You totally disengage your feelings here. I get the feeling, you still have some healing to do, in regards to this man. Perhaps that might help, if you face that. Good luck, dear
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