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How can I approach her?

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Question - (27 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2010)
A male Ireland age 41-50, *eltavee writes:

Recently a girl I have been friendly with told me that she really liked me. I was surprised but delighted as I have liked her for a good while, but I am a bit shy. A few days later when we met again I told her that I really liked her as well. Ever since I told her that she has ignored me. She is reluctant to say hi and seems like she is avoiding me. However I notice that she is now flirting with other guys, and when she is talking with other guys she checks to see if I am looking, and also I find that she is looking at me when she thinks I don't notice, and when I raise my head to look back she looks away. Now I am really confused and I don't if this girl really likes me or not? or maybe she was playing a game with me and is enjoying making me feel jealous? I would appreciate your advice on what approach to take with this girl?

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (4 August 2010):

Auntie E agony auntFrom what I am reading you both sound like you are in your early teens? Has anything else happened since July 28th? Sorry for not getting back to you sooner.

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A male reader, Deltavee Ireland +, writes (28 July 2010):

Deltavee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Auntie E

This girl i reckon is about 30.

Regards

Deltavee

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (28 July 2010):

Auntie E agony auntI have a question for you. How old is this young woman? This will help me help you, ok? If you do not want to talk here you can email me privately on this site.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (28 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntOh the "dance of first crush' how i miss that feeling. You need to cherish every second of this anx tell her you think she's cute and ask her to a movie or to go get a soft drink after school. Most of all keep a mental diary, Memories are all that's left you.

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