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*onfused999
writes:how can a male manage to keep his virginity through the post-GCSE summer when most of his female friends are losing theirs? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Hey i am 16 too and am in the post-GCSE summer *at last! =D* anyway, me and my friends both male and female are not going around having sex just becuase the exams are over, we are just having lots of fun together. if we want to have sex we do, but if we dont...we dont. simple as. my advice to you babe is to just keep it zipped if you dont want to lose your virginity, and if you do...great! just make sure its with a girl who wants it too and make it special, becuase you cant get it back!
good luck and i hope you get the results you want
love hannah xxxxxx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Im a bit worried that all your girl friends are having sex after there GCSE'S hun, dont follow the crowed, remeber just because everyone else is doing something doesnt mean you need to either.
Hope your exams went well i loved that summer after GCSE'S ended and college began *sigh* but now im stuck in the real world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Great words Ms Strict, and I don't think Kipling would mind the word changes.
Don't worry Mr.Confused, they have their lives to live and you have yours. Don't answer any of their questions, you don't have to justify your decision, and don't worry about your friends and what they may say. You are a person of strong character and you prefer to wait rather than run with the crowd. There's nothing wrong in waiting for sex, or even refusing sex. It's your body and you can do what you like. Good luck.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (25 June 2008):
 If you don’t mind me bastardising the immortal words of Rudyard Kipling:
IF you can keep your virtue when those round you
Are losing theirs and saying you should too.
If you can find yourself when all confound you
But make allowance for their feelings too.
If you can wait and not be too frustrated,
Or being tempted always remain wise
Or being roused and should have masturbated
You’re never tempted to undo your flies.
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master,
Or fantasize, and not make whims your aim,
If you can see friends lose their virtue faster,
And still control the urge to do the same.
If you can bear to hear the sense you’ve spoken
Twisted by those whose lust controls their brains,
If you can keep your promises unbroken
So keep yourself unsullied and unstained.
If you can talk with girls and keep your clothes on,
Or hold their hands content with just that touch,
Accepting that with some there’s so much goes on,
And realise for you it’s just too much.
Instead of giving way you can control it
No matter how you’d like to join the fun -
Then your real love will last more than a minute
And, which is more, you’ll be a man, my son.
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reader, confused999 +, writes (25 June 2008):
confused999 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGCSEs are seriously major exams in the uk taken when one is 15 or 16
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