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How am I ever going to have sex if fingering hurts so much?

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Question - (29 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 21 years old and I'm still a virgin.

However, I have been sort of getting together with this guy who is attracted to me and I'm attracted to him, even though we aren't dating. It's not a big deal to me. It's just for the fun of it.

Anyway, he has fingered me a few times and he can only get one finger inside (and even I can only get one inside) because it hurts and feels too uncomfortable to try to get anything larger than that inside. I can barely wear tampons because of this as well.

My question is, when I find the right person, how on earth am I going to be able to have sex with him when just ONE FINGER feels so uncomfortable and even hurts a bit? It kind of freaks me out... I'm definitely saving myself for the right person, but I really want to be able to have sex comfortably without this problem.

Has anyone else experienced this problem? What did you do to overcome it? Thank you so much for your advice!

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