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Housemate and my crush betrayed me, How can I make them pay?

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Question - (23 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Recently I was screwed over by my housemate when I found out that he had slept with a girl that he knew I really liked. All he ever did was bitch about her, saying she was fat and ugly. She had a similarly low opinion of my housemate saying he was an ugly disease-ridden tramp.

Anyway they ended up sleeping together when they were both really drunk and my housemate on drugs. Then they lied to me about it saying it never happened. Since the truth came out they both say they wish it never happened and they really regret it, they want to sort things out.

I don't think I can forgive either of them for how they treated me. How can I make them sorry? How can I show them how much they have hurt me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

If your housemate is not a roomate and is staying with you rent free throw him out. Aside from that you're better off w/o him as a mate.

As for this girl, you're better off w/o her too. If she has sex with drug addicts when she gets drunk she'll probably be unfaithful to you anyways and she is a prime candidate for an STD. What comes around goes around and they'll both get it in the end from fate. So just let go and move on to someone better.

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2006):

harshbutfair agony aunt"how can I make them sorry" - wtf ?!

Sorry kidda but what's done is done and you're gonna have to be MAN enough to move on and not let this eat away at you and become some bitter, sad, twisted old man (who is lonely).

So some chick you like got f**** over by a guy who you're housemates with. I really don't think this is a huge deal.

It'll probably happen again.

On the day before you're wedding.

With the best man.

Screwing your soon to be wife.

Like I say... Could be worse.

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