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Hot one minute, Cold the next!

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Question - (24 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *ree23 writes:

So I was practically with this guy and we were living together (im using past tense because I am in the process of moving out) and when we get along its awesome and great. He's a funny person and loving and affectionate. But then there are days when he can wake up and be a bitch the entire day. I mean like, this guy is hot one minute and cold the next. Most times I do NOTHING to provoke it. When I tell him about it he assures me and himself that he is doing nothing wrong. He is an asshole. Excuse my language but I'm upset. I can not deal with someone thats hot one minute and cold the next. Going from joking, hugging, loving, cuddling one minute to ignoring me and giving me silent treatment the next minute. this is why some of those women end up on tv shows like Snapped and Forensic Files. I feel like my head is being fucked with and I don't like that.

So I'm trying to be an adult about this and make this split amicable and easy as possible. I still would like to fuck him up though. Just need advice on how to deal with this.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (25 May 2010):

YouWish agony auntHe could have bipolar disorder, where he's hot and cold with wild mood swings. You're doing the right thing by getting away from him, because you can't be responsible for someone else's moods.

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A female reader, scarletbegonias United States +, writes (24 May 2010):

scarletbegonias agony auntSounds like my ex. My advice to you is to stay away from this asshole. Don't even let him know he's getting under your skin because that's probably the reaction he is looking for in the first place.

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