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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Got the hot guy at works work number and have text him several times, he never replies, his reason is that he doesnt use his work phone for personal things as the boss pays and he doesnt want to take the pee.His personal number is on the board in the office, so is easily found.A few weeks ago he got a new phone and new number and has only given this to the boss, apparently gone from pay as you go to contract.Has he done this so there is no way I can have his number or to see if i will ask him for his new number.And he sees texts to me as personal, the last few texts i sent him were actually work related, interesting???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): He's not into you. I happen to give my number to people often and then find myself not responding to them because I'm simply not interested.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I think he is trying to block you, despite the fact that you claim he looks at you when you are talking to other guys, etc. Maybe he wonders if you treat them the same way you do him. Just avoid him and let him make contact.
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reader, Beingblack + ♥, writes (26 July 2009):
I would honestly say that he isn't interested. In your mind, he is the hot guy, but that doesn't mean that in his mind, you are the hot chick.
There are times (we have all had them) when we live in romantic hope, rather than reality.
You texted him, and he didn't text back. You seem to be looking for many reasons why he didn't, but can't see the most obvious one. He doesn't want to.
You seem to be trying to convince yourself that he feels something for you, when there is no evidence of that fact.
Small talk? I'm not sure. I would leave him alone, and stay professional. I'm not sure that changing the works number is code for 'try harder'.
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reader, Nightingale +, writes (26 July 2009):
 If his employer pays for his cell phone this gives his employer the right and the access to every number and every text recieved if he ever decided to exercise that right.
Any guy that changes a number to see if you would ask for it you should steer clear.
Most men if they want you to reach them they will make sure you have a number and they answer. Men are not that complicated and trust me put little thought into that convoluted of a plot.
If you haven't you should see the movie He's just not that into you.
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reader, rhythmandblues2 + ♥, writes (26 July 2009):
 If a guy is interested in you on a personal level, HE will ask YOU for your phone number.So he already has it because you texted him, then if he is interested he will give you a call....otherwise, just let it go...don't make a pest of yourself or a fool either..you have to work with the guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsince then he has being showing signs of interest, not sure if its genuine or just for work purposes.
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (26 July 2009):
 Try just being friendly when you see him. But not too keen. Hot guys don't have to put much effort into flirting. Good luck x
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (26 July 2009):
Try just being friendly when you see him. But not too keen. Hot guys don't have to put much effort into flirting. Good luck x
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reader, MissKin + ♥, writes (26 July 2009):
 I think maybe he just doesn't want to text u love. If he did, he would find a way to text u back. Time to move on i think :) x
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (26 July 2009):
 I think if he really wanted to hear from you, he'd make sure you had easy access to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsince all this has happens, he has been making small talk (mostly work related) and a lot of what he says he already knows, sometimes i do think its an excuse to talk to me! he has become very visible, always about where i am and tends to watch me when i'm talking to other guys. What is that all about? and i have caught him looking at me several times????
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): You will be able to tell by the way he is with you whether he is interested in getting to know you better. If he is interested he will give you his number , the fact that he has not may indicate that he is not. Plenty of nice fellas about who will be though honey . Good luck x
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reader, Starlights + ♥, writes (26 July 2009):
 he is simply keeping his distance to avoid problems at work.
he may also not be interested in you.
he may already have a galfriend and may not want to give you the wrong idea.
of course if its work related contact him but if not leave it be.
dont pursue any further.
good luck!
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