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Homesick and lonely...should I move??

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Question - (16 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Hello,

To be honest, i feel trapped in two worlds.

Im undecided if I want to stay here in Britain, or go to my home of Origin, the Philippines.

Half Uk/Pinoy, In Britain, well, all i have is my mother and father, and of course my friends,

However i feel very lonley and homesick, i dont know why, because this is my home here, this is where i was born, Britain.

I want to move to the Philippines, but theres no money there, I have loads if family close together, and surely il make freinds there, im stuck in both worlds..

should i move?

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (16 March 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntHow long have you been in Britain?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008):

Arrr sorry you feel that way. My ex was also in your situation. He is half british and half philipino although born here.

You have to try to weigh up all the pros and cons and decide how strong each category is.

I.e

Britain Phillipines

Weather Cold 1/10 Hot 8/10

Family less here 3/10 More here 8/10

etc! Then add up the scores.

Phillipines is a beautiful country and place to live but if you were going there you would most definately have to adjust to the new life style. Do you speak tagalog or any of the other languages? why not try a long holiday first before committing.

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