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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend moved in together after just a couple of months. Things were fine at first but then one day I cam back from work and his mood was unbareable. I kept asking him what was wrong and then he just started screaming saying why I was attacking him when he just wanted to chill out. He went mad and said he was depressed, because of money issues etc and that i was just one big head ache.He really scared me and I told him he needed to move out.He didnt want to go and when he did leave to go and live at his nans he left me aletter saying hes sorry and that he'll always love me.I told him we could give it another go with him living at his nans, but then his mood towards me was just awful. He was speaking to me as though I was an object ont he phone and he just seemed so different. Because of his chanegd attitude I split up with himMy best friend died a few days ago and I told him about it, he knew her etc.. and his voice was so cold, he just said to me.. I've got my own issues and my blood pressure is sky high at the moment!!I'm so shocked at his behaviour. He doesnt have many friends or family and not much money as he went bankrupt about a year and a half ago due to his flat burning down,.Could depression being altering his behaviour??? I dont know what to make of this at all. Im very upset and cant believe he's behaving like this.He told me before that he had had suicidal thoughts. Him and I arent together now because of his selfish attitude towards me but I dont know what to make of this???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Depression can change someone . It presents it self different in men then women at times . He has to get help . I believe he loves you . I speak from exiperence . My relationship end bc my boyfriend wouldn't get help . He said some of the same things to me . The blood pressure thing was always brought up . When my sister died he was out with friends and they wanted me to come out to the bar . The last place I wanted to be . He got upset with me bc I wasn't taking the support he was offering .
Depression is hard and unless they get help they will never have a healthy
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