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writes: Im in a tricky situation ... Im friends with this guy who is engaged and she has sinced broken it off with him cuz her family dont think he's good enough, when he's a really nice (bit cockey but not sure if its an act yet) but caring guy deep down.I haven't been friends with him for that long but recently weve been spending a lot of time together cuz im finding it hard to say no cuz i really do fancy him. He's the most outrageoius flirt i ever met in my life but he would never cheat and i know this for a fact. What does that say about him and the flirting though? It could be also cuz he knows deep down that this girl doesnt really love him enough so it gives him an ego boost to have other women drool over him. He is now saying the engagement is back on but really being attentive towards me through messenger and phone and wanting to see me a lot, and we go out do different things and always end up at his having deep conversations, with intense eye contact and i have to get up and leave so that i dont get hurt or kiss him!!Should i leave it now til this girl is definitely off the scene cuz i dont think i can handle this game? or should i stay in the picture so that when its definitely over he would have fallen in love with me by then? please help!
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reader, pica +, writes (12 November 2006):
Did she tell you why the engagement was off or did he? If he's engaged (still/again/now) he shouldn't be flirting intensely with you and likely others. You'd do well to be less involved with him.
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