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writes:Me and my ex had 4 years together and a son. I havnt been with my ex since july 05 and now he says he wants me back. He says he still loves me and didnt know what he had till he lost me he is making an effort to show me. Me and him have both been seeing other people since the break up. I have had one guy i have been with as he has had one girl and now he says he loves me and never stopped. I love him in return but dont know what to do. His mother came into our family and busted us up and since then he has ceased contact with his mother.He used to smoke pot and be a drinker now he doesnt do it half as much as what he used to he agreed to go to councelling and stuff to fix our problems. I love this man and want him back but i just wanted it to be right. We both agreed that when were togther it feels like nothing else matters in the world and nothing feels better than holding each other.please i need helpful advice
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (25 February 2006):
 Try again, it is obviouse you both have feelings for each other and would be together still if it had not been for the interference of his mother.
You have a child together who has had to go through the trauma of you splitting up so you need to make a comitment this time and make sure it feels right for the sake of your childs happines, there would be nothing worse than your child thinking dad was back for good only for you to split again.
Keep talking to each other and make sure he kicks the pot and does the councelling, both of you would benefit from that and it would be a good support for your relationship.
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