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writes:My boyfriend's ex is all over his Facebook page, and it's recently started to bother me, especially as his family (who are also on FB and I am very close to) have started commenting on it.They broke up over a year ago, he had 6 months being single, then we got together. I trust him totally and to be honest he never actually comments back to her, but she comments on every single thing he posts on Facebook, status's, pictures etc, or will "like" every single thing he posts. It's getting a bit weird...They don't socialise or even talk in every day life. She doesn't message him on FB. It's not really a big issue, but I'm just starting to find it weird, especially as she finished it with him and has been with someone else since pretty much the day after she dumped him. She's 24, so not exactly an immature little girl, but what do I make of it? Why does she do this?
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reader, Lotsalove.  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 I agree with CaringGuy, shes hoping for a reaction. This is what happened with my boyfriend and his Ex. She would even stalk my facebook too. We both blocked her and therefore she couldnt even search our names to find our profiles. However, she then started physically stalking us, she'd sit outside the house in her car or follow us to the shop. Thats when the police had to get involved.
But the point is, she is doing it for a reaction. If you ask your boyfriend to block her and he happily does so, then there shouldn't be anything to worry about. If you ask him and he refuses, then he's enjoying the attention and thats when you should re-think your relationship.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (27 July 2010):
 Who doesn't he just block her from his FB? *shrug* I'm guessing he likes the attention.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 July 2010):
She does it because she's hoping for a reaction. She's not getting it from him though, as he's never replied. But it's bothering you, and by letting it bother you, she starts to win.
There is nothing you can do to stop her. But you can trust the fact your boyfriend doesn't give a damn, and that is really all that matters. Accept that she is immature and that you're the one with the good guy on your arm who doesn't reply. Just ignore it. The more you let it get to you, the more she gets to smirk.
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