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female
age
30-35,
*miley5jan
writes:hello guys , me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for one and a half year , before me he was seeing another girl for nine years my boyfriend is 34 we are going normal suddenly after a year his ex-girlfriend calls him up and asks him advice about a guy she is seeing like if she should like him or not , also she wants to meet me as well , now i find is extremely fishy why is she calling after so much time , and why is she asking him about her personal stuff , his excuse is because all her friends are abroad , how much does an international call cost anyways also a year back she used to message him saying she still loves him now Wats the deal
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reader, Smiley5jan +, writes (27 November 2011):
Smiley5jan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi everyone just thought i shall update he agreed but a week later i see his sent message where he has sent 'hows your LOVER " he said he was being sarcastic so i made him call his ex then and there and tell on the phone that she cannot call him henceforth i told her that it was extrelmely inappropriate as well that was out of spite but i am so confused he did that again behind my back scared tht he makes this a habit any suggestions???
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reader, Smiley5jan +, writes (6 August 2011):
Smiley5jan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi everyone just to keep you posted he agreed that the ex cannot be trusted and assured me he will never entertain her again . . Thank you all
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reader, srb +, writes (3 August 2011):
This is not a good situation.! He & she were together for nine years. This is a lot of time. You & him r together from just one year. Secondly, she's calling him for her RELATIONSHIP advice. Its not clear she's really asking his help or just want to get back with him.
Now first see where u stand in this relationship. Do u LOVE him.? Did he LOVE u..?? R u together ready to stay for life.??
If ur answers r NO.! Then just tell him that u r uncomfortable with his ex calling him & then see his reaction. It will tell u what future u hv.
If all the answers r yes, then do not worry. Just tell him sereously that u love him more than anything else & u can't even think of sharing him with any other woman. Also tell him that u r feeling bad/insecure due to his ex. Assure him u will not leave him & in return take his assurance too that he will not leave u. Also tell him to firmly tell his ex to not call him. His reaction will tell u the whole story. & if he's true person in nature, do not on him. Just have trust in him & give a lot of love to him & u will be soon out of this problem..
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reader, Smiley5jan +, writes (3 August 2011):
Smiley5jan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you ladies :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2011): Talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him that you don't feel secure when she calls him. You don't have to meet her. Ignore her calls.
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