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writes:Been with 'my boyf 3 months. We're very happy. However, his ex he split up with him '2 yrs ago is makin me feel uneasy They have a dog 2geva who she see's regularly. So they call and txt regarding that. She vivited im xmas mornin. She sent him xmas cards w'loads of love on and she put somethin about the little piece of his tattoo that reminds him of them. He still has her by her pet name pink on his phone and ive seen txts from her calling him babe. Am i just being jealous??
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reader, Signed-With-EyeLiner +, writes (31 December 2007):
 u hv a right to feel jealous and insecure about ur ex's relationship with his ex. everyone has probs like this. there is the possibility tht they're jst gd friends nw so try not to worry to much. try to monitor their contact and if your stil uneasy tlk to ur bf and let him knw hw u feel. if he dsnt try to attempt to calm ur fears hes not worth it. ur too gd for someone who dsnt respect ur opinion and fears. Much Luck x
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reader, lil'shade  +, writes (31 December 2007):
I thank you need to say something to the girl bout doin dat. Dat ain't cool at all. I would cuss him out. Child Please Its alright to be jealous.
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reader, loops +, writes (30 December 2007):
Right, I have been here, and I actually know someone who is in so much of a similar situation im actually wondering if its her im talking to (i showed her this site).
You have plenty of right to be jealous/ uneasy and everything else you are feeling, it is only natural that you feel that way about the fact he is still being affectionate towards her. Id seriously suggest talking to him about it, and maybe arranging some way that she can have the dog a few days a week, or something similar, instead of her being constantly round him. Ask him if he can have a word with her regarding her behaviour towards him and just say you feel its a little inappropriate considering hes with someone else now.
You have every right to and shouldnt let her cause problems in your relationship, they can still be civil and still see each other for the dogs or as friends without being overly affectionate in a way thats not fair on you
good luck
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