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His ex contacted him and said she wanted to hang out with him today, and he obliged. Do I have reason to be upset about not being invited, or am I just paranoid?

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Question - (17 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 22-25, anonymous writes:

yesterday my boyfriend called me and said that his ex-girlfriend wanted to hang out with him today. he obliged. i was upset, because i wasn't invited. i have always had jealousy problems and i thought about it and decided to let it go, cause it was probably me being jealous again.

today, i called while he was with her, because i was having pc trouble, and he knows about computers. he told me to try something and call him back. i called him back in an hour or so, but he didnt answer his cell. neither did his ex-girlfriend answer hers... i'm really upset about this. i called several times, and still nothing. am i just being paranoid?

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A male reader, rcn United States + , writes (19 October 2007):

rcn agony auntI'd give him a chance to answer why it is you weren't able to get a hold of him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

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i should have clarified. i am sorry. he hasn't seen his ex for 3 years, because she was studying abroad, and she wanted to meet him to catch up... he didnt do it behind my back, but the whole phone call thing was extremely upsetting...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

That is really weird. Why is he hanging out with her without you around? Do they do this a lot? What are they doing? I'd be worried if i were you.

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A male reader, rcn United States + , writes (18 October 2007):

rcn agony auntThis is really messed up. He doesn't have respect for you if he's going to hang out with his ex.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntDear Anon

I think that you are acting as any one would under the circumstance, why on earth would your bf want to go off with his ex and leave you at home, there seems to be a big problem with him, I think he is more that likely cheating on you, because he has met his ex behind your back, then he is not giving you the love and affection you deserve,i cannot advise you what to do, but why should you come second best two his ex,

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