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writes:i have been with my Muslim now for nearly 3 years i love so dearly however i feel confused lately i went to a wedding with his family in Cardiff where i stayed over with them but my partner was working so he could not come it was nice that they invited me. also the uncle in Cardiff said i am part of the family now which was also good to hear, and i enjoyed myself.i have also been to other wedding with them over the period. when we return home that next night i was invited to go to meet some close relatives.i went to meet them with his auntie yesterday who my boyfriend currently lives with her along with her husband and children where i spend a lot of time going around there at weekends as they live quite close to me. I don't get to see him much as it is not allowed in there culture so i have accepted that, but see him from time to time he told me he love me. however the auntie said to me that he was on the list meaning to find him a wife when she said that i felt sick inside a i don't know how much he has told them however his auntie children said to me the other day that you love him don't you which i guess was nice to hear as i would assume they have been talking about me. Also the uncle asked me do i want to get married in Bangladesh i said yes assume it would be him i marrying. Also the auntie sister said to me the other day "do i want to convert" i said yes and that she would be a witness as i am learning the prayers etc... and that if i would like her to be.The question is where does that leave me as i feel confused and don't know if i am coming. or going
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): thankyou i will when i see him next guess the auntie might of been fishing when she said he is on the list but who knows perhaps she wanted to see my reaction
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): never ever convert for love..do not convert your faith just to be accepted for the love of a man.
i was in the same situation...i raised as a catholic..nothing to do with islam.
we can not fight against the nature.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (8 June 2012):
 You need to ask him and get him to explain to you what is likely to happen. If you convert to the faith and agree to get married in his country, then it's likely that you stand a chance to marry him but nothing is guaranteed and his family might have other ideas, but it seems they have accepted you and so I think you should ask him.
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