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He's well endowed and I'm a virgin... will it hurt?

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Question - (22 February 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2008)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I am 16 years old i have been friends with this guy for a few years and have been going out with him for a year i want to have sex with him but i am a virgin and he is very well endowed 12in to be exact i wanted to know if i had sex with him if it would damage or hurt me inside not pain wise but medically

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008):

well my boyfriend's 8 inch and i thought he was big... i don't really believe he's so big but hey it takes all sorts. be careful and use lots of lube. good luck xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008):

haha. if you didn't measure it yourself.. he's not that big.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

Well they come in all sizes not matter what some sex experts say but 12 inches as has been remarked upon elsewhere is BIG.

Now will it hurt, most likely unless you are a horse.

Will it damage your insides, possibly if it really is 12 inches. One of the reasons that pedo's are so evil is that a normal sized penis inside a childs body will do serious damage.

Even in an adult female there is only so much space inside. 12 inches is LONGER then my forearm, just how deep do you think your vagina is anyway? Porn frequently talks about big sizes but most women seem quit happy with far more moderate penisses.

Frankly I think this story is a bit of a fib but if it isn't then use plenty of lube, be very very relaxed and be sure he stops the moment it hurts because YES, you can get damaged inside and very dangerously too. Have 12 inches go inside of you and say goodbye to your insides.

No babies do NOT count, your body will adjust to a baby over a period of months, childbirth used to be the major cause of death for women and the baby does NOT reside in the vagina during pregnancy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Alot of you ask if this post is real and yes it is very real and it isn't just by word of mouth i have measured it myself and it is 12in and you guys are scared think bout how i feel lol

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A male reader, Uncle_Phil United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Uncle_Phil agony auntIf you said 12 centimetres it would probably be more like it. Someone is trying to impress you I reckon. 12 inches would be more like a baby's arm than a penis, and although not impossible, it's highly unlikely he'll be anywhere near that big. And if he really is that size, the sensible thing would be to decline the invitation or use an aspirin - between your knees.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntSorry, but I do not believe this post is the least bit credible. All bull. And if there was any truth to it, this girl should run like hell.

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A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Tell me, do you know it is 12 inches because you have measured it or is it because you have been told this by someone?

While it is possible it is also most likely an exaggeration as this length is so extreme.

Yes a large one can cause pain but if you are slow and patient and considerate of each other (and him of you) then it should not. After all it is still a lot smaller than a baby and they are able to be born sometimes without anything more than discomfort (my son was nearly 10 lbs and 23.5 inches long at birth and when he was born his mother had no more than a stomach ache (quite mild really, the nurses thought she was not in labour).

As a last note, if you have not personal evidence of this extreme size then I would distrust all accounts from other people no matter who they are. This is just so unlikely.

All the best.

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A male reader, guillaume  United Kingdom + , writes (22 February 2008):

guillaume  agony auntCor, he's a big boy!

Good luck! G.

(I'm curious if this post is real)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

12 Inches?

This has gotta be a bum post.

No guy is that big and I mean no one. The only ones that are are surgically enhanced or that porn star that had a 13 incher (he was a freak of nature, one of a kind).

Flynn 24

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (22 February 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntHoly crap that's big. Lol. I was with a big guy for my first time too and yes it will hurt but you just need to take your time and have some lube on hand.

Don't rush things and it'll be a wonderful experience.

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