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female
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36-40,
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writes:I have worked in my present job for 6 months now, i like my job a lot and i also like one of the guys i work with. He has worked there for about 3 years and gives off all the signs he likes me too. I am afraid to admit my feelings to him and i think he is too. We work in a small company and not too sure the boss would approve as i'm his secretary and the guy is one of the mechanics. It is becoming quite stressful as i want to say something and get to know this guy more but he is very hot and cold and only seems to keep it to work. He is very private and shy person, and doesn't say much about his personal life. The guy in question has been quite stressed this week.I'm wondering what advice you could give me. Do i just go slow and see what develops? Or am i barking up the wrong tree?? Maybe you've been in this situation??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): I say you've worked there 6 months and he has been there three years. It's a small company. Your boss needs you to help run the place. Why don't you just ask him out for a coffee one day and straight out tell him you admire him and you want to get to know him.
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (8 August 2009):
 All of the signs?
While this case might be exactly as you describe it, your gender has been known to read signs where there aren't any. So what signs? If they are subtle clues that only a woman could detect, then they don't exist.
If there are signs, then what do they say? I am sure serial killers give of signs to, so is he looking at you thinking or a romantic evening or gutting you like a fish? As always, you should ask yourself, what is wrong with this guy? Nothing? Then why is he so shy? Blowing hot and cold?
It could be harmless, really just shy, but by finding out what is wrong, you can then plan your next action. Run or chase.
Really, find out more about him. Talk to him, involve in him talk and talk with others about him. What is he really like, a shy guy or something else altogether?
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Go slow, see what develops.
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