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writes:hi everyone. The situation is ive known this guy for 9 years. We have always been close. we have had our fall outs (as every friend does)but we have always made up. we have been through thick and thin. i wouldnt hide it but he is known to get into quite a bit of trouble. I stick up for him to a certain extent but thats it. He does the same with me if im ever in bad situations but i tend to keep my nose clean. The thing is that both of us havent settled into a relationship because of our jealousy towards one anothers partners. We know that if we had a relationship together it would definetly work but the thing is my family hate him. Well my sisters do. They seem to like controling my life and have never liked me and him being friends. i think that at 20 i can make my own desicions but they dont want to know. please help! I wasnt to be with him badly!
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 If this relationship will work and you really want to be with eachother then defiately go for it, it seems as if you will always be there for eachother, and as long as you are happy that is all that matters, although your sisters are just looking out for you, you are right at 20 you can make your own decisions, and although their opinion is valid, it ISNT your opinion, and that is the only thing that matters, they don't have to love him you do! follow your heart. Hope the advice has been helpful. Good Luck
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