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He's too busy selling drugs and hasn't time for me.I love him..I miss him-so what should I do?

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Question - (6 January 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *xTEASERxX writes:

im 17 and have a boyfrend of 19....he told me he loves me but he isnt showin it to me..i fink i love him too..i av a lot of strong feelings for him..we have been together 4 months now but things r slippin downhill..he isnt answerin my fone calls or replyin to my txt messages..i have seen him twice for the past 2 weeks..he sed to me that hes too busy(selling drugs)and hasnt got time for me..and now i feel useless...half of the time he dusnt feel like my boyfrend..but i dont wanna finish with him coz im scared of losin him..and i dont know wat to do..please can you help me..

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A female reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (7 January 2006):

x Chrissy x agony auntGirl what are you doing,

you dont need a drug dealer as your boyfriend. have enough courage and respect for yourself to get out of this as fast as you can cause trust me it is going to bite you in the ass later on. You might have strong feelings for him but you can seriously find better.

You have a lot of time ahead of you and you dont need to be held down by a drug dealer. Get out and you'll thanks yourself on day.

Good Luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006):

For a start what are you doing running after a drug dealer, you are only 17 years old and you are chasing after a guy who is the scum of the earth too busy pedalling crap to kids and causing heartache to call you or text you.

My advice to you get over it and get over him while you still can this guy is a complete and utter scum bag, try dating a nice guy with an actual job that doesnt involve his 'clients' robbing little old ladies in order to feed their habit!!!

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2006):

harshbutfair agony auntThis guy will pimp you out, get you pregnant, give you aids and one day you'll end up dead - a skeleton with your skin tightly clinging to your bones, smoking on a crack pipe and wondering where it all went wrong. Well, let me tell you kidda, it went wrong the day you met this guy and it got worse when you didn't leave him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006):

Run Run as fast as you can Girl don't get mixed up in a guy who is selling your asking for trouble and heart ache move on your only seventeen Hello you have you whole life ahead of you It will hurt at first but after awhile believe me you will find it was better off and you will look at him like a loser trust me I delt with someone like that I thought I loved him now i look back and it wasn't love the guy now is in jail and has been for the last 8 years in and out they need to want to live better in order to stop dealing with that type of life some people never change If you really love him tell him you want him to quit or its ove between you to Good luck

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (7 January 2006):

mommyofthree agony auntOh honey, please respect yourself enough to know that this relationship will do nothing but bring you down. The first clue should be the fact that he is too busy for you because he is a drug dealer. You need to get out of that relationship and find yourself someone with a legal job, that will be able to give you the time and attention you deserve.

Good luck.

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