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He's soo nervous around me

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Question - (14 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and he was like a really close friend before and now things are just akward and he's not a shy guy but when he's around me he gets nervous. Around my best friend he's great u know talkative and simple and sometimes when she's not around he's like where is she? It's so weird. I used to think he liked her but apparently they became great friends after he asked her to get us togethere.

Idk wat to do to ease the tension. You know all he'll do is hug me. He wont hold my hand or kiss me. IDK what to do to get him to not be so nervous around me.

help please.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

He's more at ease with your friend because she is just that, a friend. Just content yourself with the hugging for the time being, don't pressurise him into anything else and let him take his time. Take the time to get to know him properly and this will be a better basis for a relationship,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

He's more at ease with your friend because she is just that, a friend. Just content yourself with the hugging for the time being, don't pressurise him into anything else and let him take his time. Take the time to get to know him properly and this will be a better basis for a relationship,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

the relationship is still new, so he still has to figure out how to act around you now that you're going out. I was the same way when i dated my ex boyfriend. we were friends for years then we went out and i second guessed myself all the time and i didnt know what to do. he'll evwntually feel better around you, you can even ask him whats up.

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