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writes: I have a big crush on my lab partner but he's very much in love with his gf. I just met him in Jan when we became partners and seatmates in our class. We became close, he would tell me about his crushes and his gf, his family,etc. I started having feelings for him, I think he's really cute, smart and bf material. Plus, my ex bf cheated on me last Dec so we broke up, until now I'm still hurt and traumatized by my cheating bf. I still haven't found a replacement and I think this lab partner may be the one for me. I can't stop thinking about him. We really connected, I can feel the spark! We flirt a lot during class, he would always pinch and poke my arm, joke that he "loves" me, touch me for no reason, etc. But he never even hinted that he likes me or anything. He's so in love with his gf, but I want him! What should I do to make him love me instead? Our term ends soon and I'm afraid our connection will end soon too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): when a man leaves his gf for someone else he'll will eventually do u the same. also, it is very hurtful to the girl and you should not want to hurt her especially since you know he has a gf and is in love. find an unattached man. leave them alone. be the bigger person in this picture
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): i know how you feel. about 1 1/2 years ago one of my best friends asked out another one of my good friends. i have loved him forever and ever and it breaks my heart to see them together. i wish more than anything that we could be together but i have to agree w/ the person who said that you need to leave them alone. theres nothing you or i can do. we have to let them go. it's tough but i guess its just not meant to be.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 What should I do to make him love me ????
Oh I don't think thats healthy at all.... You cant make someone love you.
Leave him and his gf alone its for the best, maybe get a new lab partner?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Looking at your situation I am the girlfriend in this at the moment, but it is a lot closer to home. My fiancee's best friend (female) who he lives with because they are at University, adore's him. She has an unhealthy obsession with him and is horrible to me whenever I go around to visit or when he comes over to see me. All because she is obsessed with him. It is ruining our relationship, making me feel like shit and I dont know what to do. You would be taking on her role in this situation, ruining someone elses relationship for your own selfish gain, that you may not even get.
Just stop and think about what you are doing, how selfish it is and that there are plenty of other guys out there that will see you for who you are without you having to do things like this to get some attention.
Let them be, enjoy their life and if it isnt supposed to be he may come to you, but you cant force it, they are happu and it is not your place to interfere
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reader, Collaroy + ♥, writes (7 April 2008):
 Hi,
so you are still hurt and traumatized by your ex's infidelity?. Yet you want to do exactly the same to this man's girlfriend without even thinking about it. Cold my friend very cold.
Sorry, no advice. Take a look in the mirror instead and say, "I will find an unattached boy".
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): I'm sorry, but you have to let him go. It's true, would you like someone else to interfere in a relationship of yours? Like when your ex cheated on you? Do you reaaly want to be the "other girl" who breaks a couple up? If you experienced the pain of being left because of someone else, you should think about it...
There are lots of nice guys around who you'll connect with. And they're single. You just have to be patient. But really let this guy go, as hard as it seems, because plus, how would you trust him if every time he meets a new nice girl he leaves his current gf for her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Why would you want to interfere with his relationship? Would you like it if someone did that to you?
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