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He's so big it hurts to have sex

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Question - (5 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi im 19 and my bf is 30

this a lil embarassing he has a really big penis like 9 and i cant get it all in it really hurts and is so tight. when i finger i tend to just use one or 2 but this feels like 4 or 5 what can we do to stretch it and make it more enjoyable for me as well as for him. we have tried lube but it hasnt helped that much and im sore we like to do it at least once a day advice please ?xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

I've had this problem with my boyfriend, and honestly no matter what you do it's going to hurt. What I've done in the past is just to have him loosen you up first and then just ease it in. No matter what you do to get yourself looser it's going to hurt. But after you get it all the way in, just keep it there and eventually after you have sex a couple of times it will get better.

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