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He's sick of me being shy!

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Question - (4 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2011)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

my bf told a good friend of mine, after she asked, that he was a little sick of having to always go and talk to me at school and that i never do it. I really dont know if i should be angry or feel guilty, should i apologize and spend more time with him tomorrow??, i mean we are boh really shy but he told my friend that hes a little sick of me being really shy, should i be angry or guilty, what should i tell him i mean i really dont wanna loose him...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2011):

I wouldn't feel angry or guilty.

I would say that you should talk to him. Let him know that you would rather he let you know when something is bothering him in the relationship rather than complain to your friend. Then I would tell him you are going to work on being less shy with him, which is good for you to do that anyway!

The way you do this is when you see him, go up and talk to him. He's already your boyfriend, so don't be afraid to walk up and say hello. He obviously wants you to do this. He probably feels like he's doing all the work and he doesn't need to. He wouldn't complain if he didn't care about your relationship.

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