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writes: ok, so I met this guy on MySpace and we started talking and we went out to a club together for this DJ that we both REALLY like. I asked him if he'd want to go with me, and so he did. He came to get me and we had an AWESOME night. Turns out, I REALLY like this guy. He was really flirty and stuff all night and ended up kissing me before the night was over with. We've been talking for almost a month now, and all I can think about is him, and we've only hung out twice. But I really do like him and have made it very clear to him how I feel. Well, I went to his house the other night, and he was super cuddly and kissy again. But than I asked him how he felt, and he said "He's not ready for a relationship right now. But feels VERY comfortable with me" and I let him know that if he's ever interested, than I'm always here for him. Even if he just wants someone to talk to or just randomly cuddle with. And he told me the same thing back. Well, I'm just really confused, because I really do like him even though I haven't known him for that long at all... he said he's kinda broken right now because he's been hurt a lot. I just wish there were something I could do to understand this whole situation better and get him to realize that I'm not gonna hurt him and such. As I've been hurt A LOT in the past too and know exactly hoe it feels.Any advice is greatly appreciated. THX!!!
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reader, Confused88  +, writes (19 March 2007):
Hey
I'm actually in the exact same position with a guy,
The fact is he has probably been hurt by some exs' and is now being more cautious when it comes to relationships,
Don't take any of it personally,
If you really like him don't keep asking him if hes ready because it will turn him off straight away,
Whatever you do don't try and force him into a realtionship,
Just hang out with him and when he does truly feel comfortable with you maybe things will become more,
& If its not meant to be theres plenty more good looking fish in the sea!
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reader, AskEve + ♥, writes (18 March 2007):
 My advice to you is to remain friendly with him, hang out together, talk, get to know one another better without any heavy stuff! Don't give him big deep talks ie "how do you feel about me?" This is a total turn off for men and the question alone can make them run for the hills. Just enjoy what you have together and in time your friendship will deepen.
Eve
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