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writes: I am in love with a boy but hes so popular and I'm unpopular...I was lucky enough to have been put in his class and have gotten to know him over the past three years. I know he likes me too, I can just tell, but he is the most popular boy in our year and I am, quite frankly, a geek. He wouldn't ever go out with me, and I really need him, hes like, my reason for living. I don't know what to do. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, advicegirl  +, writes (10 January 2007):
 heya......if you rellie like him then go for it because at the end of the day you've got nothing to lose!!!!!!try and get him by himself for a bit then tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way then he wont mind about you being unpopoular!:D
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reader, cam  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 hey i dont think you really should worry about poularity, if you 2 do like eachother then there shouldnt b a problem. i dont know how close you two are but i think you should just talk 2 him more an wen you feel happy with it just tell him how you feel. just because some1 is a (geek)as you say it doesnt mean that some1 woulnd like them because of it. you just hav a differnt personality alot of guys find an individual personality attractive.if it does bother him that much then he might not b the rite guy. i hope things do work out for you 2 i think that all you really need to do is get out there get 2 know him better and tell him how you feel.
goodluck with everything
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 My first recommendation is for you to embrace your "inner" geek. You are what you are, and there is nothing more attractive about a woman than confidence in who she is. Don't assume that your "geeky" qualities will turn him off, they may actually be big attractors for him.
The second thing I can recommend is that you ask him out, or at least flirt with him a little bit. You might be shy and this is something you will have to overcome. Shy people often supress body language and other non-verbal signals, this will make it VERY hard for a guy to detect how you feel about him and he may think you are not interested in him.
Basically, be confident that the qualities you posess are attractive, talk with him, flirt a little, and make sure you keep eye contact. Notice I did not mention the "popularity" factor, it's a red herring and you should ignore it.
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