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He's not nasty in bed (and I want him to be)... are all guys this fussy?

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Question - (11 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2007)
A female Ireland, asho320 writes:

my bf wont have sex with me while im on my period and he wont give it to me up the ass. im going mad he wanks off in front of me and i cant do anything cause my periods are very very heavy. he will not change his mind he is the most stubborn-ist person ive ever known! i suggested doing it in the shower and he said no it will be too messy! he is a clean freak! i just wanna know are all guys this fussy????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

No all guys are not this "fussy"

But maybe it just doesn't do anything for him, I mean it's not the nicest thing in the world is it?

I wouldn't think too much of it and just accept that different people have different likes and dislikes.

I don't think you'll be able to change this about him, I think it's something you'll have to accept if you want to be with him.

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A female reader, JUSTHANNAH United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2007):

JUSTHANNAH agony auntWhy are you so Desperate to have sex during your Period??Can you not use a Vibrator on yourself then while he Masterbates? Im not sure weather al guys are like tat Because I Personally Never Wanted to have Sex with my Husband During my Period ...Maybe someone else can advise

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

No. Not all guys are this fussy about the period thing. Especially when they are in love and in a monogamous relationship. The ass thing, I wouldn't know about. No guy has ever tried or even asked and I have never wanted to.

Maybe you could try to be a little more subtle about it. Some guys actually get turned off when you say things in a vulgar way.

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom + , writes (11 August 2007):

Peterk5699 agony auntFirst a quick question: If he's the most stubborn person you've known, why are you with him?

No, not all guys are this fussy. He doesn't want to do it because it obviously isn't his "style" which is fair enough - people have preferences and these should be respected.

If you want to have what you have writen then, as he won't do it, go searching for someone who will. Sorry if that sounded harsh at all.

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