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He's more distant..and not answering my texts! What should I say to him?

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Question - (31 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hey this is mainly aimed at guys but anyone who can help will be appreciated!

I am 16 and have been with my boyfriend of the same age for 5 months - we have a great relationship but in the last two weeks he has stopped making the effort to reply to my text messages and has been slightly more distant (I am pretty sure this is nothing to do with me - but simple that we are moving to the stage in our relationship where we are discovering the 'real' each other!)

I am seeing him tomorrow afternoon and I would like to tell him somehow that I like him texting me back but i dont want to seem confrontational about it or moany etc!

What do you think is the best thing to say, without seeming to full on or like im complaining??

Thanks for any help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007):

hes not inerested

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006):

I think he is distancing for a reason, like maybe he is developing deeper feelings for you, and I think you might want to back off and give him some space to do that because by ignoring your texts and messages he is sending you a clue that he wants distance right now. Surprise him by saying nothing at all about the fact that he has not text you in awhile.

Also, try the phone or having a face to face conversations instead of relying on text messages if you want to avoid miscommunications. Good Luck.

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